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Dear Friends,

When your family or companion pet dies there can be overwhelming feelings of pain and loss.  You are grieving.  But few people recognize the death of a pet is a very real loss.  This wonderful creature that has loved you and your family unconditionally.  The bond that has been formed between you and your little friend is everlasting and has truly marked them as a part of your family.

Recognize and acknowledge that your grief is real.  Do not be afraid of the intensity of your pain.  You may experience a wide range of feelings and feel confused.  Write about it or talk about it with someone who will listen and hear your pain. 

Have compassion for yourself and do not allow others to diminish your feelings.  Grieving takes time.

Honor your pet with a special funeral or burial service.  It can be a private ceremony with your family and friends and/or include your pet's friends.  Today, there are even pet funeral homes and cemeteries.

Many owners choose to have their pets cremated.  If this is your choice, you can still have a memorial service.  You may choose to bury the cremated remains or scatter them in a special place.  If you choose to bury the remains, there are a wide variety of pet urns available.  If you dont have a pet cemetery or funeral center, check with your local funeral director.

You can make a donation to a pet rescue group or your humane society www.phsspca.org or animal shelter in your pet's name.  You may even choose to donate any pet food or pet treats you have left in your pantry to these groups or consider making a gift bag of pet treats and toys for the pet next door.

Don't rush out and buy a new pet.  It can take a while to sort out your feelings and your pet deserves to be grieved.  Your old pet needs to be buried in the memories of your heart.  A new pet cannot replace your old pet but it can help ease the pain.  Trust yourself.  You will know when it is the right time to buy a new pet.

Remember, what you are feeling is very real grief.  You do not have to apologize for your feelings or be ashamed.  People grieve because they love, so don't let anyone rob you of that love or the need to honor it.